why does the world isn't the way i want it?

if you want to know about the world, you first know yourself. same as, if you want to change someone, chage first yourself the way you want him/her to be changed. if you want to be loved, you must love yourself first. if you want real love, you should start to love real.respect yourself before you will be respected by others. see,everything starts from yourself. if you try to build a world from the way you wanted, start building it to yourself.